Testimonials by Men

"I have met a very nice lady, in fact we shall be meeting for the 5th time today. Thank you for helping me to find someone with whom I share so much."
Member *700**

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"I am enjoying the site and I'm connecting and meeting with one or two nice ladies."
Member **225*

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"Met some really nice people on here. I would always tell people to give it a go why not if that's what they want."
Member *321**

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"IE is an interesting experience, that has widened my perspective on life."
Member *200**

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"Doing well with people contacting me, so see how things go !!"
Member **144*

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"Yes I have met a few, but I am quite fussy and know when I have found a good match... you just know if the chemistry is right as I am quite a tactile and sensual person! Am still looking for that "ideal" woman but having lots of fun in the process!! "
Member **335*

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"I have had some successes, but need more! Please help me if my profile is incorrect."
Member *216*

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"Have met with two ladies already and talking to a number of others. By far the best site I have used so far !"
Member *310**

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"Early days have had a few mails an am texting with 1 lady haven't met her yet. But over all quite pleased with response so far!"
Member *188**

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"Success is good, have met one or two, one or two unhappy surprises, one or two better than expected, but I guess that's how it goes"
Member *235**

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"I've been very successful thank you and really enjoyed being here - I've learnt loads about what women want too - sometimes good - sometimes bad"
Member *0671**

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"Love the site, actually. Yes I've met a couple of lovely ladies, and one very special one!!"
Member *099**

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"Great so far! I met a lovely woman last night and am meeting another tonight. Not bad for 5 days since (re)joining!"
Member *399**

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"Have found the site to be very good. Success rate has been good."
Member *756**

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"Great site - have some dates lined up"
Member *642**

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"I'm rather pleased with the site, as I've chatted to several lovely ladies and have arranged a date this Friday and another for next week. Your service has provided just what I was hoping for, so it's up to me and my companions now to find that spark and who knows . . ."
Member *178**

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"So far so good. Chatted and emailed lots of wonderful ladies. Enjoyed dinner/coffee etc with a select six , and have had 'wonderful' times with 4 of them!! Please keep this info confidential as I dont want to appear a tart!! Lol Do you ever play or is this site just your job"
Member *090**

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"I have not met anyone yet, though I have been in contact with quite a few. There is a broad cross section of ladies, I guess as you would expect. I have been contacted by some, who, I have to say are dubious, and I have a strong suspicion that they are not what they appear to be. However, some of the women I have chatted to have also said that most of the men here are perverts...!!"
Member *762**

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"I have had some interesting chats with some and met one or two and think I may be about to meet my perfect match thankyou."
Member *291**

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"Met a good lady for a couple of meetings. Nice sex to say the least but not much else in common. Hoping to find something special with my current lady"
Member **41**

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"Met a few on email, 2 on phone and 1 in person...will see for 2nd date ...so far quite good experiences...."
Member **673*

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"I had replies to about 33% of my emails, of which maybe half were on the lines of "thanks but no thanks". Of the remaining 12, I exchanged emails with six people, but eventually contact petered out. Of the other six, I'm still in touch with 5. I've met one - VERY successfully - and I suspect I'll see her quite a few more times. Of the others, I think there's another one or maybe two who I may eventually meet. I think the others will fade away. So - did I find what I was looking for? Yes
Was it easy ?
No - but I don't think it should be easy."
Member *192**

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"I have met two women. One who I got on very well with for a short time but then became immediately possessive and suspicious and the other who i felt no connection with at all."
Member **066*

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"Would say it has probably been a success so far, although still very much in chat/plan stages. If things continue as at present I feel your site offers good vfm."
Member *293**

"Yes I did a few"
Member *914**

"I have used this site on and off over last two odd years. I met 3-4 women about two years but nothing materialise. I did meet someone from London and although I was in Shropshire we had a great relationship although distance became a bit of issue after 9 months. I have however been disappointed recently… I think a lot of women here are chatting to 3-4 men at a time. I had some hope with a woman who asked me to suspend my profile and when we were going to take things further she had a major guilt trip. So I guess I wasted my money. I have not met anyone this time."
Member *822**

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"I have met one woman so far and waiting to see how it pans-out. I am not really into this for a series of encounters. Pretty satisfied with value for money so far."
Member *654**

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"I have had some success and have met one very lovely lady from the site. It was an unexpected and pleasant meet full of fun and some hot action. The site has come good for me!!! ;)"
Member *283**

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"2 very nice women and no 3 tonight. Can't complain at all"
Member *194**

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"It is going better than I expected. Some nice people and genuine. But still early days."
Member *310**

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"Yes it worked well. The high price means you have to be pro-active immediately, but don't let the lack of response or flippant response from some get you down! I met one lady (only once), though she should be strung up for falsely advertising her self ;) Have a good distant friend but I have found and met twice someone else locallyish who there are good signs with."
Member *223**

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"Have been emailing a really nice lady, so no complaints from my end"
Member **999*

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"My success rate at the moment is ok, have had loads of chats, in contact with a couple on the phone and another couple through the site, so on the whole its going well. Met one and spent the night which was good, think she wanted more though and I'm not looking for anything to serious so its ended, stay in touch with her though which is good x Do you ever get chatted up and do you look at the sight to see who's on there??"
Member *996**

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"I am in contact with a couple of members, excellent, although you have a few peculiar people on the site as well. My advice to others is to be careful."
Member *214**

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"I have been quite successful in meeting 3 ladies so far, although butterflies are yet to hatch! I do (and I suspect many other men) get a little frustrated when we receive no reply at all. I appreciate that ladies are probably swamped with offers, but if there is a way of encouraging ladies to at least reply that would be good (a polite No Thanks button to enable them to reply very easily?) I think that is about is for now."
Member *487**

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"The site works real good have met a few "ladies" surprisingly most carry way too much baggage and most have issues and are real demanding. They tend to want you to be under their control & get really annoyed if you do respond quickly :)> I can't afford to me married to more than one woman at a time ... I figured that's what this site was about! :0 From your side as the administrator the site is great the service is great .."
Member *208**

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"I have met with one lady, but I am not sure if this will go anywhere as I am not convinced that she is happy with having an affair. I have made connections with other ladies who appear to show an initial interest."
Member *201**

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"The site is fine and I have met (so far) one lady, become pen friends with several others (5), one of whom I will be meeting for coffee once her children have returned to school (sounds bad, but is the nature of the service) and another when she returns from holiday later this month. I have also been in contact with about 40, most of whom were "sorry no" (perfectly acceptable, though disappointing in respect of some) with one or two "you must be joking's" thrown in. Insulting, but you can't control your customers to that extent! Overall the site is perfectly acceptable. I am reminded of my father's favourite toast "To wives and girlfriends, may they never meet!"lol."
Member *008**

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"Have met one person, hope to meet up with at least one more.... but I only want anyway, so I'd say that being realistic, my success rate isn't too bad!"
Member *281**

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"It's OK, met 3 so far. One was promising, but early days yet"
Member *234**

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"For me it's been a game of 2 halves in that when I first joined IE in the Spring,I was lucky to meet a number of women & 2 in particular who were both very nice. In both cases their difficulty was concealing their extra curricular activities from teenage daughters rather than from partners; this was exacerbated by the school holidays which sadly did for both relationships. The second time has been a bit different partly because of a change in my own circumstances which has forced me to seek partners in a more limited geographical area"
Member *738**

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"Met one and she ended up being a good mate to me. Thinks that's as good as its going to get"
Member **72**

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IE helped to add the things that were missing at that time(last year)and helped bring my lost personality out that had laid dormant for quite a few years......so thanks
Member **24*

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In all honesty me having an affair made me realise how bad my marriage was and gave me the strength to end a bad situation!!!! I'm not seeing anyone now, and I didn't end it for the other person, but the last 5 weeks since i have been honest and up front about my feelings have been amazing, and i feel i have found 'me' again!!!
Member **89*

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Mainly, needing to feel special again. Wanting to know that somebody out there was thinking about me and wanting to see me. I needed that jolt that goes through you when she calls. Try as i might, i simply cannot grow old.
Member *161*0

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Difficulties in having sex because of transient health problems in my wife a year ago eventually led me to threaten that I would look elsewhere for sex. This, together with an article in 'The Times' (dated Friday, November 2, 2007) entitled 'Not tonight, dear....in fact, not ever', spurred my wife into realising that she'd better do something. So we can now have tremendous sex.

However, once I had threatened to 'go elsewhere' for sex, I found that I really did want an illicit affair for the thrill of it...yes, to give me that frisson of excitement of having a secret liaison that I know will turn me on and in turn spice up my marriage. Even the thought of this happening makes me more eager to have a fling.
Member *25**0

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I think my circumstances may be very different to most people as my marriage does not need saving and if it did then an affair would probably be the one thing that would kill it of for ever.

Being in the intimate company of a woman other than my wife gives me that young, alive and vital feeling in the short term and in the long term it provides me a constant reminder how special my wife is.

When we had our first child she gave up partying and was happy to do so. I still get out to party but need a party partner, hence siging up to your website.
Member 2*93**

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I don't usually reply to this sort of question but in my case this really wasn't something I ever thought would happen to me.

My wife had a full Hystorectomy and our sex life went from being very healthy to almost never. We have a terrific relationship and I did not want to lose that so this was an option. It took me five years to go down this route and thanks to IE I have found a regular partner and am very happy all round.

I am troubled at times as the duplicity of the situation is not healthy nor just.

I hid my profile once I found what I was looking for, but all things are transient and perhaps in the future I will be back to find another partner...who knows.
Member *1*43*

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Not trying to save it as it has already collapsed, been without close female company for a very long time and now am able to find it without being worried about being found out.

simple really.
Member *2780*

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A complete lack of sex. Don't want to leave because of the children. I don't think i need to say anymore!
Member **15*

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"Doing this has put some laughter and a spark back in me. Which does help make home more bearable."
Member 1**3**

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"I regret not having an affair before i split up!!"
Member **011

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"For me it has given me interest and I have developed friendships ... intimate or not with the added benefits that you don't have to share the daily hassles of life ... like utility bills, grocery shopping and what we having for tea. My marriage remains the same I won't shift from my lady, she needs my support and sanctuary. Positively one of the best relationship sites I've used and I've lived all around the world."
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"Having an affair has saved my marriage, as we both now have an open relationship. I realise that this doesn't work for the majority of married couples, but I've never been happier!"
Member 17***6

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"It kept me sane through a difficult time and realise what was good about my marriage and what things could be worked through. Why? The constant desire for another's touch and the excitement of it, the missing of that spark..."
Member 16***8

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"Hi I don't know whether an affair will save or wreck my marriage but all I know is that I have got to do something to get out of an ever increasingly larger rut and start to be happier than just contented I've been married for 24 years and just feel as if I'm living with a best friend sad eh."
Member **977*

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"I have been married 26yrs together for 30 - usual story - grown apart - different interests - still love him but not in love - want to feel 'wanted' again even if only for a while."
Member 20***3

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"While I think having an affair may not have 'saved' my marriage it has certainly made our relationship better. Mainly because I am now much more content and relaxed. I find I am less tense at home than I used to be (caused mostly by a lack of any intimacy which I tended to resent somewhat!)

I have no regrets and do not feel guilty in any way."
Member *7**17

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"I just got to the point if truthful that one no spark due to the lack of commitment in the bedroom and unwilling to try and put it right after spending two years of trying to sort it out have just given up but the kids are the number one reason I haven't left and from her side I would say perhaps she does not see the man she married trouble is over the years things change and you have to change with it I have tried to but it needs two to try not just one she did say I could go else where then when I went out changed her mind."
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"I don't know if my marriage was saved by an affair, but I think my life was. My husband died six years ago. In 1995 I was overweight and very unhappy, I was probably on the road to a heart attack or stroke. I didn't care much about anything. Then I went to a uni-reunion and met again someone with whom I had spent the last night after the exam results. I was then 58. That night he roused me more than I was to be for the next few decades, but we didn't actually make love as I had a boyfriend and standards at that time!

When i met him again it was amazing. I knew I'd die if he didn't kiss me, and when he did it was like 50 million lightbulbs flashing on. We didn't then, either, as he was sadly no longer able to. But I decided then and there to change my life, so I lost weight, bought clothes, went to a dentist and a surgeon. I also found that I fancied my husband much more- he didn't ask any questions, he just enjoyed it. Eventually I got hold of some Viagra and had a very brief affair with the man."
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"No regrets. It has helped me stay married for 33yrs"
Member **217*

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"strengthened my marriage YESSSSSSSSSSSS first it has put the excitement back into my life I feel a sense of belonging to someone who cares for me I can 'share' the excitement with my husband just love the thrill of the chase my IE pal is just great fun and we have so much in common I am very lucky to have found him! thanks IE"
Member **312*

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"I first started an affair because I wasn't getting much attention at home, and the sex was nil.

"No, it hasn't strengthened my marriage, and I do regret it, because I met the 'right' man in the 'wrong' circumstances. It broke my heart."
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"My wife went in the change early"
Member **548*

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"It certainly saved my marriage! Married for 37 years now to a man who appears to be 'asexual' and had a very frustrating and unhappy marriage, in respect of sex. For the last 10 years I've had lovers and I am now open about it (got tired of all that lying and deceit). He has decided to go along with it as neither of us wants a divorce and we get along pretty well in other ways. So I would definitely recommend it!"
Member *775*

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"My husband has had 3 affairs that I know of. I don't feel the same about him because of it , no trust. That has made me look elsewhere"
Member **891*

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"An affair saves your marriage. It makes you look at what you have differently, appreciate more what you have at home. An affair was a necessity for me sexually and has much improved sex at home. Illicit sex is far much more fun and more a release but gradually I did try a few things at home to be less reserved at home. There has to be compartments an affair is fun but is always separate from home yes sometimes I feel guilty but it has made me happier therefore things better at home."

PS i used to think it was terrible people having affairs but as long as noone gets hurt and its very discreet can benefit all concerned including the unaware spouses
Member *0*26

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"An affair ended my marriage - I am actually separated now - my husband had an affair - with his secretary! Had he used a site like this then I dare say we would still be together - his secretary was young and wanted more! Using this site would have ensured that he was conducting an affair with somebody likeminded who knew "the rules"!

I use this site as it suits my busy lifestyle - I don't wish to be "a couple" but I do want some male company with defined rules"
Member **850*

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An affair puts back a spark, love, or emotions that were no longer there in the conventional relationship

"What made me realise I needed an affair? Unhappiness, dissatisfaction in my marriage, with no option to leave at the time."
Member **189*

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"When you haven't made love to your wife or have her show any sexual interest in you for 10 years you realise you need the feel of cuddles to make you feel human again.

I have two wonderful daughters who think we are the world's best parents !! I have no intention of ruining that picture and walking out hence illicit encounters."
Member **685*

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"...because of the loveless nagging moaning life i have at home!!!!!!!"
Member **796*

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"I would definitely say that having had an affair or a few.... it has kept me in the marriage. I dread to think what I would be like if i had not strayed... but certainly not as confident or as happy as I am now, that is for sure. Miserable old bag comes to mind!!!!! I am certainly not that, husband has no interest in anything romantic or sexual, mores the pity, but I am here, so the family is together... although the children are growing up. But yes, having joined this site certainly has helped me... thank you!"
Member **65*

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I just need more sex.
Member *2352*

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"You know what? An affair is an extension of sharing of who you are. It means that people out there have their reasons and I'm here to give them the moral support or friendship that they haven't got with their partner. If that will end to passion, it is inevitable because of the connection. I'm married and that was it but it really keep stronger because of the extended affair."
Member **889*

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"..having an affair means something is wrong, however hard we tell ourselves that it will be ok and means nothing...for myself, I fell in love with the person I was having a relationship with...he doesn't feel the same however and despite my efforts, I never felt the same about my husband again! 5 years later, we are still nominally together but only in the sense of living together, I still see my lover occasionally as well as a couple of guys from this site...but I don't sleep with my husband any longer. Does he mind, I don't know, we never discuss it, but I miss the intimacy that we had but I know it has gone for ever. But our marriage was in a bad place when I started all this, an affair only serves to confirm this fact!"
Member **262*

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"A long term marriage gets to a point where it becomes a strong friendship but we all need a bit of loving now and then and feel that you can still be attractive to someone. Add that with forbidden fruit taste best then you have all the ingredients for an affair. With the advent of sites like this it is now possible."
Member **792*

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"Hi for years yes it did, it satisfied me while the children were growing up, once they were old enough and I felt I had done my duty by them, then no an affair did not save the marriage, as something had been missing for quite a number of years, that could not be replaced."
Member **914*

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"I'm not sure if it will save my marriage. I just sometimes want close contact with a female. Life ticks by so quick. You only get one chance on this earth."
Member **938*

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"I would say that an affair has most definitely saved MY marriage!

My husband is a lovely man, but has no desire for anything physical in our relationship. I am still very interested, tactile, warm, and was FRUSTRATED.....I now have a wonderful lover, that I meet maybe once a week, for the most mind-blowing sex ever!!"
Member **701*

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"I joined this site and was thinking of spicing up my love life a little but never got the guts to do it. Then my husband went and had one and left me."
Member **505*

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"Sometimes its not always about finding sex because we are bored. My sex life was ok when I had it, but I haven't had it now for 6 years because my husband is disabled. I love him and its not his fault but it would help our marriage because I resent the fact my love life is over and it spills out unintentionally in our marriage."
Member **879*

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"Cant do without an affair otherwise my marriage wouldn't last a day!"
Member **922*

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"I need tender loving care i never get that we don't have sex we don't sleep 2gether he treats me like a kid shouts at me calls me all the names u can think off i never have any money so I need am affair some 1 that treats me like a human being not a slave."
Member **885*

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"Many of the aspects of the early relationship that led to marriage were no longer part of the scene. This is the main reason for my looking outside"
Member **615*

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"I think when you have spent 20 years working hard and providing for everyone you start to realise everyone is happy and your not!! I definitely need to be a little selfish at long last."
Member **955*

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"Has an affair saved my marriage?

It has prolonged it, I would say. Whether that is for the good, only time will tell. Maybe it is a case of putting off the inevitable... not sure! It is possibly a 'sticking plaster' solution, not a proper solution.

Do I have any regrets?

In some ways, yes. In many ways, No. The yes I have regrets bit is that it changes a person enormously (in my view). It is then hard to 'go back' to how you were before the affair. It was inevitable in my case but different for everyone, of course. I may be one of your longest standing members... I had an affair off this site that lasted nearly 2 years. I happened to find one of lifes nice people here and it was intoxicating and fulfilling. We parted very amicably although there is no going back. But we still keep in touch from time to time (we both have daughters and were comparing GCSE results only last week!)

I have learned a lot from the experience. I have learned about myself and have learned more about men and what makes them tick on this site than I ever learned before.. (and I didn't marry till I was 30 and had dated A LOT!)

The common reason men are here and need this is repeated over and over again... 'I want something that is just for me, private and all mine'"
Member **95*

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"My sex life is ok, but lacks spice and my wife will not try anything different shall we say."
Member **786*

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"My wife has been off sex since she had her hysterectomy-5 years ago. To put it simply, I have needs."
Member **972*

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"I am not actually married and my girlfriend is not sexually adventurous but I love her. I like to have fun in the bedroom but am feeling unsatisfied, therefore I feel that if I can have some raunchy sex now and again then I will not be tempted to leave her."
Member **176*

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"I'm probably like most men, they have a great wife who's become their very best friend, and those lustful, crazy moments are a thing of the past. There's no way I would ever want to leave her,or visa versa, but if I can have a few lustful liaisons, i'm sure it can only enhance our marriage going forward."
Member **952*

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"I have regrets, I met a married man off here and me spent time together, we were attracted to each other, however he doesn't want to meet again, he felt guilty and told his wife, that made me feel guilty."
Member **625*

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"Dear Administrator. I hope you don't think this is cheeky but are you single? And if so, would you like to have a date with me? I would love to hear from you. Get in touch again"
Member **706*

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"Excitement the first time you take of her bra to reveal what her breasts are really the first time you eat her to see if she's nice and sweet or bitter."
Member **983*

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"For me, its not about saving marriage, but certainly about bringing back old (and now decreased) attraction."
Member **749*

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"Not had an affair but have met and chatted to a couple of women ,and the mutual attraction was a boost to my self esteem. Sometimes just meeting for a cup of tea is all that is needed , an enjoyable conversation with other people who are lonely in their marriage and unappreciated , is rather nice, without the possible complications such as guilt, or getting found out that you had sex by your partner!"
Member **392*

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"hubby doesn't know, but its realised there are nicer men out there and not all tight like my husband!! regrets.......none at all.:O)"
Member **428*

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"it made realise that I no longer loved my husband and i left him, so it had the opposite affect on me but never the less a positive affect."
Member **346*

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"Lots of flirting....which is good. Couple of coffee meetings which went ok."
Member **278*

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"It has actually saved my marriage."
Member **876*

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"Doing this has put some laughter and a spark back in me. Which does help make home more bearable."
Member **838*

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"Have met a great man thru this site, our affair has not made my marriage better, don't think anything could as we have grown so far apart, what it has done is make it bearable, made me feel like a woman again, that someone actually wants to talk to me, kiss, touch me etc. the man in question, well I think that apart from having had no physical contact with his wife for a long time, that in other areas he still has quite a good marriage. I just got fed up of feeling so alone, hardly ever talking, hubby going out a lot, decided that I needed and wanted a male lover and friend......have no regrets whatsoever as the guy I have met has become a friend as well as a lover"
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Testimonials by Women

"Without question, the nicest and best quality men are on this site specifically because they do pay a premium."
Member 1**44*

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"I met him and then his work moved him 300 miles away so I've had to start again."
Member **6568

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"I'm very pleased with the way things are going."
Member **443*

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"Have met a few guys for coffee and lunch . One guy we really hit it of .have met several times. Yes we have stayed over in a hotel. We keep in touch daily."
Member *9*6**

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"Just wanted to let you know I met someone on here a year ago this coming Saturday and are very very happy"
Member ****58

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"...there are so many to choose from, I'm spoilt for choice. I have been inundated with offers, but I think I have found a nice man, well he sounds like a nice man, just started to chat to him, still not sure whether I will go any further than chatting, but he seems ok with that, just have to wait and see how things go."
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"I have met a really nice guy and are embarking on some fun lol!"
Member *3*94

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"I have met a very nice man, we emailed for ages, just couldn't get to meet because of circumstances. Eventually we met for lunch and whilst he was a very nice guy I didn't really think he was for me but he earned brownie points by bringing chocolates. He turned out to be a slow burn as on the 2nd lunch date he kissed me senseless and blew me away! We have since had a night in a hotel and another lunch and text and talk all the time. Just goes to show its the quiet ones you have to watch!"
Member ****58

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"I've met lots of really nice guys actually which is great and a little unexpected without wanting to sound rude!"
Member *3***6

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"I do find the odd guy that I have met to be very acceptable."
Member ***959

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"Hi there - yes I think I have! After a lot of frog-gathering (you have to kiss a lot of frogs) I think I have found my Prince. Having said which, I'm a bit flighty, and may just continue with the frog-kissing! I'm one of the 'happily married and just looking for a bit of spice' brigade - not seeking to turn my home life upside down. Thank you so much for the site, which really is exactly what I was looking for."
Member *3439*

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"Met Member **** and that's why he wants to come off the site!"
Member **69*3

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"I've been having a relationship with a guy for a year now after meeting on ie!!"
Member *55***

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"Building up a friendship which started in June. Still a bit spasmodic, because we are both busy and social people and we live 2hrs apart, but there a personality buzz and the sex is great."
Member **65*9

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"I have spoken to a good few guys here, and yes I have met a truly lovely guy, If he's right for now?, well he definitely is lol. And I hope for much longer!! all the best"
Member ****3*

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"Maybe! Having met a couple of guys online, I then met someone who I just clicked with & have been seeing them since November!! Great site, thanks!"
Member **8***

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"Have met one or two very nice men. There is a spark with one of them so we will see how it goes. They all seem very respectable but lonely, a bit like moi!"
Member 933*9

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"Hi Sara...yes I have a couple of Mr. Rights' greedy I know lol"
Member 99**3

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"I wanted to contact you to say YES I've met a wonderful man. We've had two meetings and plan on getting together on a weekly basis, with a couple of overnights thrown in! Like me, he's after one special relationship, and I don't think he'll mess me about. He's kind, caring, considerate and handsome!

Yesterday I checked into a hotel saying that my "business partner" would be joining me for a meeting. When he arrived in the foyer I was saying "have you finished that report yet", reply "almost" etc. I couldn't stop laughing. When we left we said "just popping out for some lunch" but I'm sure my face was bright red. We left the door unlocked with the key in the room. Its all very exciting and fantastic.

I feel guilty about betraying my husband, but this guy has awoken feelings in me I though had died a long time ago. I'm a red-blooded woman, and he drives me wild in bed. He's extremely considerate and I can' stop smiling. I'm much better at home now as I'm much happier, and I have our weekly meetings to look forward to.

I'm not logging on much now as I have found somebody, but I want to say what a great site this is. I've honestly had no problems whatsoever, but I was lucky in finding somebody special very quickly who didn't just want casual sex.

I'm hoping this is a very long-term thing. I'm sure he feels the same way, and who knows what will happen. It's extremely difficult as we're both married with children, but as long as we can have our snatched moments I'm more than happy."
Member **9385

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"I've spoken to some fabulous men on here. I already have a Mr Right-for-now, I'm looking for a Mr Right-whenever!"
Member *993**

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"I have had a steady stream of admirers, a lot of online flirtation, one date which led to nothing, one boyfriend whom I met three times and also now another boyfriend who I think could be what I am looking for. So I am a great fan of this site."
Member ***56*

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"Have met a couple of really nice guys, some odd ones and some I've blocked. Very entertaining exercise! x"
Member *3*5*5

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"I've been speaking to really nice guy who lives quite near . not met up yet but heading that way soon."
Member *3*9*5

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"Met real nice man thank you xx"
Member **44*8

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"Once a minx always a minx. I have had a few meets on here. I think its excellent here, the fact that the men have to pay almost gives a little guarantee that you are getting some quality in the male species on here rather than some of the other undesirable sites I have tried, that makes a huge difference when you play such a wickedly naughty game that us married folk play on here....so thumbs up I think this is an excellent site and i have nothing but positive praise for it and I have at least half dozen of my friends on here....so yes I have had some wonderful experiences on here."
Member *3395*

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"Met Mr. Right, decided to leave our partners, at the final hurdle he couldn't go through with it, couldn't leave his son....things don't always turn out how u want! lol"
Member *64**6

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"Thought I had twice, but no, third time lucky!"
Member *88*88

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"Your site is fantastic - chatted with a few people and might meet up at some point"
Member ***668

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"I believe I have met Mr right for me...we have been seeing each other since April ( first date was a joint birthday meal) Thank you"
Member *64*5*

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"Am doing okay on the site, chatting with some nice men, met up with one, but it wasn't to be! Never mind I'm still looking"
Member ***555

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"I meet a guy , and have been seeing him for 3 months , but I know it seems daft but I really don't like sharing . So I'm still looking!"
Member **4458

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"After many, many coffee mornings, I have now met someone. We are very compatible in every sense, and the future really does look very good for us."
Member *395*4

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"I've met two lovely men and am seeing both of them. They are both very special to me"
Member 3**44

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"Have met a lovely guy have been seeing him for about two month now."
Member ***335

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"Only just joined but have had a few replies, great."
Member *348*4

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"Without a doubt I have met Mr Right. The unfortunate thing is he would Mr Right- for ever if we were not both already married. That's not quite so easy to deal with, but no regrets with the affair"
Member 948**

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"I'm hedging my bets by still talking to others."
Member **3***

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"Have met a couple of very nice Mr Right for Now's and having a nice time - thank you!"
Member *634*5

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"I have met some very nice men had good times"
Member *5***9

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"I have had a couple of dates, and we are seeing each other on a regular basis now. Thanks for the sites help."
Member *3*833

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"I am still looking but there is one I see when we can. Lovely person. I like to think I keep his boring side happy. We have secret meets about every two months. We understand each other and that seems to work very well. It's just a shame he lives a little far, but that in our eyes is a good positive thing. The site is so good, for both sexes. I am only looking for that someone special, am sure i will find him soon"
Member *58*6*

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"I think I may have found the one!"
Member *3*843

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"One relationship lasted 11 months the other was promising but short lived due to his wife finding out!

Thanks for keeping me sane"
Member 6**86

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"Speaking to a couple of potentials but just having fun right now."
Member ****4*

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"Its going well thank you."
Member *339**

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"I had a good chat with someone on Monday which was good.

Never done this sort of thing before. I'm not looking for Mr. Right-for-now, just a friend to socialise with.... Website is interesting though.... I will keep browsing"
Member *33*8*

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"Have met a great guy!!! had a wonderful weekend together and looking forward to our next encounter!! text every day !! I have found a great friend! Thank You!"
Member **489

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"I've had a good response from lots of men, you get inundated at first. I'm taking time to respond to them when I can."
Member **98*5

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"I have and it is wonderful!! X"
Member ***5**

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"I met such a lot of nice men... I so would love to meet up with someone, that can be a good friend, where we can take nice long walks, hand in hand, kissing and cuddling along the way. Go to places, I love doing everything, a wide interest. I can talk about a lot of things."
Member **8*85

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"I've met one or two, and am seeing a man who could be Mr-right-for-now again soon. I love the site, and can tell you that without exception so far, it's been a positive experience. I've tried another site and it was ok, but there seems to be many more men here, and they seem (to me) to be genuine. Keep up the good work - I may be back online soon!"
Member **9*63

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"Had some interesting messages mulling these over"
Member *34**9

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"I'm in the process of meeting a guy. I have been chatting to a few, so its all good at the moment."
Member **39*3

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"I am drowning in responses, about 30 every day.

Most of the men are of a very good quality.

It looks as if all the City hangs on your site during the work hours.

I have been able to meet only two gentlemen since and can't decide."
Member *3*538

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"I most definitely have met my Mr Right-for-Now and probably going be my Mr Right-for-Ever if we can get over the distance thing....he's in Kent working in London and I'm in Somerset - its not easy! The funny thing is we have found each other on a 'married' web site but are both single. How bizarre!!

I love this site and will be back if things don't work out, but if they do all I can say is THANK YOU...."
Member *965*4

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"Yes I have met Mr Right for now. I have been in touch with a lovely gentleman from Dundee."
Member **4*5*

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"Met a couple of guys who have stayed friends with and in the process of still chatting and meeting hopeful some more, and it is having a healthy effect on my marriage, its not right for everyone but for me its working, most likely saved it...."
Member ***698

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"Yes I have so have suspended profile.... but occasionally dip in because you never know!!"
Member *53*45

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"I met the most wonderful man on here two years ago and I know we'll be in each others life's for ever."
Member 9698*

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"Have had everything and more"
Member **45*3

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"There's a few nice guys out there, I'm still deciding which is best for me. I find work and holidays get in the way right now!"
Member **55*9

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"Have been inundated but have arranged to meet a lovely guy on Sun - keep your fingers crossed!"
Member *3339*

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"I have thank you, he is great!"
Member **53**

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"Hi met someone for coffee and a chat but doesn't look like his photo, but he did say I looked just like mine which pleased me as you just never know and do worry about that as I hate anyone to be disappointed."
Member ***9*8

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"I am in communication with three potentially hopeful dates: they seem nice people. We shall see. I have turned down quite a few others as unsuitable."
Member *3*5*4

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"Yes, I am dating two guys from IE and everything is running along nicely. Still keeping an eye on the others - nice selection"
Member *88*66

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"I have met several special friends, and have 3 more in the pipeline.

I'm having a great time."
Member *9*4*8

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"I have met someone. He's absolutely gorgeous and we meet every Thursday, just wish we were both single but were not."
Member*85636

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"Met a few potential partners."
Member **8494

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"Have met a very nice guy and am about to go on a second date. I think the site is perfect for me."
Member **3*43

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"Yes, I think I found one, who pursued me and I think we both feel for each other. We already met 4 times and we're now very intimate. When his back from holiday in 2 weeks time we might put the romance on the next level."
Member *****8

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"Have met several really nice genuine people on this site-love it! Some have become friends some lovers but the knack ,I think ,is to choose wisely!

I have had some tremendous nights out, inventive day trips and huge amounts of laughs.

Thanks to IE there are many happier people out there and I am sure it can improve some marriages esp. for the men as I have noticed if they are having fun and their needs met they seem to become better partners. I went underwear shopping with a very nice wealthy chap and we choose some great stuff from Rigby and Peller for his wife, she was delighted and he had a very steamy weekend indeed!

It isn't always unhappiness that leads to affairs, more boredom and familiarity. I love my husband dearly and would be very unhappy without him, but IE has provided the 'cherry on top'

So thanks to whomever came up with the idea."
Member 9938*

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"Yes I've met Mr Right-for-now (good phrase!)..Thank you to IE for helping me!"
Member **8**3

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"I have met a couple of nice guys thank u xxxxxx"
Member ***589

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"I met one man I fell in love with and he with me, but he couldn't cope with the guilt of deceiving his wife and after a few weeks went back to her.

The next special guy I met quite recently is younger, very interesting and seemed genuine, but I'm not sure now if he wants more than just sex. He may not get back to me I fear, despite us having three enjoyable dates. The problem is that other guys now seem quite dull in comparison!

I don't want to have to keep starting over. It gets quite tiring and is harder to organise at the early stages. (Glad to have got that off my chest!)"
Member ***8**

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"I have met Mr Right-for-Now, we've been meeting regularly for about a month now and it/he is more than I would have hoped to have met on this site. Well on the internet more so. I joined out of curiosity/interest and didn't really expect to find exactly what I was looking for and actually, I did.

So thank you very much. I think this is a good site, you've got a great concept."
Member **69*4

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"Met someone on the site but the jury is still out and now I am sat here wondering whether to carry on or suspend profile.

Would help if I knew what I wanted!"
Member **66*4

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"Yes I have met Mr Right for now and I'm yet to know if he is the one for me permanently as an affair that I want.. He is kind and generous a good talker and we like the same things only he lives a bit too far away we are working on that problem.. Our first meeting however was at a train station where, would you believe it - where Brief Encounter was filmed. Could I ask you not to send me mails of recommended matches or to recommend me to anyone else until further notice I will be back if this doesn't work out meanwhile my profile will stay invisible until then, Thank You."
Member *9*9*8

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"Yes, but as these things are very fragile, I'm still open to other options."
Member *64393

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"I most certainly have met Mr Right for now, hopefully Mr Right for ever lol"
Member *533*8

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"Have met my Mr. Right back in March, I've also met and made a few very good friends in the process. Thank you IE"
Member *8*3*6

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"Have met a few men but has not lead to anything more. Still chat to one or two but things have gone a bit quiet. Must admit the first guy I met when I first joined was really nice. Really enjoyed all the texting and e mails and we met a few times unfortunately he ended the relationship. Still hoping to meet someone else I can connect with."
Member ***98*

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"Think I may have met the one.........met a couple of times - both have same sense of humour so as they say .....watch this space lol"
Member **6443

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"Plenty of offers, but no rush. Tend not to answer anyone who doesn't seem to have read any of my profile and guys who tell me how I will be or guys that can't be bothered to write a couple of lines and not cut and paste from their profile.

Apart from that, have met one who was nice but I didn't click."
Member *3**85

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"I've had 3 first meets and 1 second meet. Having so much fun, I feel so much more relaxed knowing they are in the same situation with me.

It's really making a difference in m home life. Thank you so much IE!!"
Member **8465

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"Met him last October and we're still in there. So this works for me..."
Member ***9**

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"Been a busy time so not had much time to get back to everyone. Very happy with the site & level of messages & calibre of men on here. Have met one guy so far & hoping things will develop further. Many thanks"
Member ****9*

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"Lots of hits, but haven't met up with anyone as yet.

But looks very positive...thank you"
Member *3**59

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"I have met some lovely men.....I am into fresh meat so I like to sample and then move on. They don't seem to mind believe me! I am having huge fun incidentally and this really is a great site."
Member **59**

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"I've met someone. Is he Mr Right? We will see lol x"
Member *5****

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"I think I am about to! I will let you know after we first meeting...."
Member **5*48

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"I am still trying hopefully soon... there are some nice people here but to meet the one person would be nice"
Member *6855*

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"Had good fun on here! Met loads of potential rights but hey there is always room for improvement!"
Member *3**53

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"Yes I found someone over 3 years ago, he's absolutely gorgeous. My profile is hidden, but occasionally one creeps through, and I always read your messages. Hope I can keep him for ever, and he feels the same!!!!! Great isn't it?"
Member 4*43*

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"Met someone lovely, been chatting 4 months only met once but got a meet planned next week and i cant wait, feel like a school girl again"
Member *6*55*

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"Have met a lovely man."
Member ***99*

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"I have been on holiday, but I have found someone, early days yet, still want to stay on the site. but until I meet this guy will keep my profile invisible, to give this person a chance"
Member ***5*9

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"I have indeed met Mr Right-for-now who will hopefully become Mr Right-for-ever! I met someone around 3/4 months ago on IE following a particularly difficult year marriage wise. He was also having serious problems with his wife and we seemed to hit it off immediately. Since then we have either texted or spoken most days, have met up once or twice a week, spent a weekend together and are planning our next. Today we decided to continue until Christmas as we are and if things are still going as well, to leave our respective partners and try to make a go of things together. I have been unhappy in my marriage for many years and am so glad to have met someone I get on with so well. He is a wonderful person, a fantastic lover and we share most interests so thank you IE!!"
Member *9****

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"I've meet with a two people from the site, one there just wasn't that "something" and the second we're meeting again at the weekend so it looks very good.

I find that having a straightforward and easy to understand profile helps, men can reply as to what they liked and you can quite instantly tell if someone's your cup of tea or not. I always take the time to email back saying thanks for the interest and whilst they aren't what I'm looking for good luck with their search so I'm not burning any bridges should the man I'm speaking to not work out.

So overall I'm very pleased with the site, both times I've used it so far, I've had good results."
Member *****6

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"Have my first meeting tomorrow lunch time, not sure if this will be Mr right, just have to wait and see."
Member **6558

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"I have met Mr Right and it is going very well , we get on great and he has certainly brightened up my life. and to top it all he kisses great"
Member *4869*

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"I've met Mr Right but he spends most of his time working abroad!!!!Just my Luck!"
Member *94*4*

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"I have had quite a lot of luck on here, thankyou. I met one guy who I saw for 8 months, he was a really lovely guy, but his wife found out about us, so it got stopped. We are in contact by email still though. Recently I met another guy who I seem to get on with so far, we have only met the once, but have arranged to meet again, but, yes I'm very happy how things have gone for me."
Member *35346

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"Thank you I have - he's lovely"
Member ***4**

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"I have met three people, the first was an extremely handsome professional man who hadn't really thought through why he was on this site. I don't meet a man to jump into bed with him. The second was plum ugly and had lied on the site, the third was lovely, interesting but kept bleating on about how expensive the site is?"
Member *5****

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"I have been on here for some time and found the most perfect gentleman last night. He took my breath away."
Member **495*

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"I have met a guy who feels like a friend already and when we meet it is comfortable and we both don't stop talking. It is comfortable and feels natural. So definitely right for now."
Member *343**

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"I have met someone who I like and who seems to want the same things as me, for now at least!

I have also recommended you to my brother but unfortunately he cannot afford the subscription fee.

I don't have any female friends that are single or interested in this type of relationship but if I did, I would definitely recommend you!"
Member ***498

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"Fantastic website!!

I have met 5 guys in person. 3 no's and two possible... Few more dates planned already.

I have noticed that quite a few men can talk for England on screen but when it comes to having a conversation face to face, they freeze. Anyway - good fun!"
Member ****3*

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"I have met two guys (both divorcing) on this web site. One infrequent (for sex) and the other very local for sex also. Local guy and infrequent guy I met last time I joined. Local guy and I have an on off relationship! We have decided to get back together for the mo but I am still looking since we end up winding each other up and arguing. Then we bump into each other doing kids clubs etc and there is definately a physical attraction so we get back together. Haven't met anyone this time round who I would say is suitable. I am getting a lot of e-mails from guys who haven't read my profile."
Member **848*

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"Spoken with a couple of nice people, nothing arranged as yet to due everyone going on holiday. Some really nice people on yr site, not the usual dating site morons, keep up the good work."
Member *****9

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"One at moment"
Member **9338

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"Only been 4 days so far!! but have made contact with one chap who seems nice, have a virtual kiss sent and am on several bloke's favourites list, so, it's looking good.

Can I ask, what is the etiquette if someone sends an email who you are not interested in? So far, have just not replied

thanks"
Member *34**5

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"I have been out with someone a few times, he's nice, but not really my 'soulmate'. We get on fine though and go our for meals and chats....."
Member ***64*

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"Am in touch with a few people and having fun and one in particular is going very well. We are texting a lot and hoping to meet next week. So maybe I have met Mr Right-for-now."
Member *3**8*

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"Yes, definately 2nd date!!! x"
Member ****94

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"I am getting lots of dates; one I liked and saw twice. I have a date tonight; fingers crossed!"
Member *944**

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"Hi...yes have met a really nice guy and we get on very well. Hope its going to be a long relationship. Thanks for THE SITE"
Member ***9*5

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"Met me right-for-now within the first couple of days of him joining, he is very nice, both have things missing in our marriages, and enjoy the closeness that we have when we meet"
Member ***483

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"I needed to reply as quite amazed at how things have turned out for me!

Within hours of setting up my profile I had chatted on line and phoned a guy who like myself was seeking someone else, I am married and he is in a committed relationship. We have met on several occasions and it feels like we have found what we are looking for.

I am somewhat on cloud nine but obviously using caution, it feels great and hopefully for however long it lasts will offer me what I am looking for, he really is a great guy who gives me the attention that I have been yearning. For this I thank you!"
Member ***3*9

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"I have a little bit of luck - have met a couple of men - nice blokes but just not suitable for me. I have got a couple more to see soon. it seems some men just want to chat, txt or email. maybe i am too serious for them - who knows??"
Member *3*5*3

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"Not sure thought I had - but no spark he said.

Found a great couple of men to just talk to though. still got my fingers crossed"
Member *3**83

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"Yes, I have met a lovely man.

Thank you"
Member **5***

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"I've met Mr potential right for me now - but he just keeps sending virtual kisses...no messages"
Member **84*3

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"There are so many Mr Rights out there....well they think they are. they are not!

photos .....why do people who are trying to in effect 'sell' themselves in the best possible light place a photo on their profile that is blurred, tiny, wearing sunglasses! just naff!

I have met many frogs so as to compare and I have out of about 5 guys met a prince who could still turn into that frog, but for the time being I really like him. BUT I still receive mail and still look and reply."
Member *63**4

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"Two of them actually"
Member *****

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"Have definitely met Mr Right for Now. We met up initially several weeks ago and it has progressed quite dramatically since then. Our only problem is geography - I live in a rural area almost 3 hours from the city he lives in and getting away from home has required some considerable deception. However we have been able to meet more regularly than we had initially planned for. Still in the 'honeymoon' period of our relationship I guess and contact is mostly daily by text, phone call, email etc with regular meetings in the city.

Hoping it will continue of course with no one getting hurt in the process.

Thanks to this site."
Member **6889

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"I have had some luck and been meeting the same guy from this site since June. It's as and when we get time to meet up as both very busy. Have also kept in touch via text and email another guy and we seem to have a lot in common as well.

Always good to keep a spare!! lol"
Member **5**8

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"I have met my Mr right for now........"
Member ***564

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"I don't know about Mr right for now I think its Mr right forever!!! We met through this site 16 months ago & now have a wonderful relationship. I have separated from my husband & my new Mr right is hopefully moving in with me in the new year. Have you had any illicit weddings yet? Watch this space!!!!"
Member 84*34

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